The challenge with this kink is that it’s not as straightforward as others – there’s no script to follow, no clear actions to take, and no physical tools involved.
It’s all about emotional connection and verbal expression which arguably, many men overlook or feel uncomfortable engaging in.
While physical touch and attraction are vital, some do not realize the profound impact their words can have.
So, what is this mysterious kink that’s capturing the hearts and minds of millions of women?
It’s a praise kink, sometimes called ‘affirmation play’ or a ‘good girl/boy kink,’ involving words of assurance and appreciation during intimate moments.
Unlike most kinks, it’s deeply rooted in the psychological and emotional aspects of intimacy and when a person is attuned to it will create a deeper connection and passion.
The praising can focus on specific skills, behaviors, or physical attributes.
Expert Dr. Nicole K McNichols explains on TikTok: “People who have praise kinks get turned on by their partner complimenting them. Praise kink exists on a continuum of course, because, I mean, who doesn’t love being told that they’re beautiful or hot or amazing in some way?”
In a piece for the Daily Mail, Hocking reveals that while it may seem ‘horrendously self-centered, slightly narcissistic, and probably a bit shameless to admit to,’ she is ‘very much on board with it.’
She points out: “It has had a whopping 60 million views on TikTok so clearly I’m not the only one lapping it up.”
Hocking adds: “The kink involves people who get off on hearing how wonderful they are (especially in the bedroom). So if you are like me and you go a bit wild when your fella calls you a ‘good girl’ while getting it on between the sheets… welcome, you are part of the ‘praise kink’ tribe.”
She adds that common phrases people in this community enjoy include: “You’re doing such a great job,” “You’re so good at that,” and “Baby, you feel amazing.”
@nicole_thesexprofessor How to tell if you have a praise kink – and ways to enjoy it if you do!! 😉🔥 #ForYou ♬ original sound – Dr. Nicole K. McNichols
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